No more misery.
Life is full of unexpectancy. Being apprised that you’re eventually going to meet people and experiences, their advent influences you in some way. You may spend your whole life contemplating their significance or purpose in your life. But you will want to rapture every moment of that phase. It somehow becomes a part of you; you’re dependent on it. You share who you are underneath that skin of yours. But when something is so essential and valuable to you, everyday you are in this angst of losing it.
So when this thing (can be a person or even an experience) disappears abruptly, most people can’t handle its consequences. Well it may sound harsh but the truth is you will only go through these circumstances if you do the things mentioned in the first paragraph. Imagine practically losing a part of your body; it will undoubtedly hurt, will it not? It may even cause death if you have granted it an prodigious part of your body. Well here many of you might think that I’m mostly referring to a loved one. But this instance comprises of links to art like painting, dancing, etc. Also here I’m alluding about drugs. When you lose this thing, you start making no sense. Things can worsen but it’s better not to mention them all as they would be intriguing for gullible readers.
But I can propose a few ways to ease the anguish. Well you can try being a private person. Make yourself witty enough to not let your surrounding affect you unless you know it is good and not temporary. Never sell out things about yourself. Be the only person who’s known the deepest layers within you. Don’t get too comfortable around people you’ve only known for some time. Following these few ideas can help you become less agitated when someone disappear from your life. But what will happen when you lose someone permanently? Then you should fairly wait for time to heal things up. And never lose hope of getting better and normal.
Now another question rises. What about the disappearance of art like the ones mentioned above? Ending of these can be due to loss of your own abilities. Well now here you can try a thing; try looking for new such things which fit into your capability. Try to find the same happiness in doing something new. It is better than being crestfallen. You can always start a new journey; it is all within your control. Just wait until you recognize it.